Lesson to learn

One of my shirts in the morning…

In very specific situations.

Other than that? Whatever she feels comfortable wearing. Why does this question even come up?

I’ve been to events of various types with people (male, female or anything in between) who were dressing ‘up’, and it tends to be aggravating. Wear clothes you’re comfortable with. And don’t expect those you interact with to not do the same.

If she feels quite comfortable in heels, miniskirt and tank top, that’s great (and, yes, I’ve met women who were able to do serious manual labour in heels and mini dresses. No idea how they did it.), if she prefers sneakers, sweat pants and a baggy t-shirt, that’s just as well. Work boots, full length trousers and a plaid shirt (or chef’s jacket or blouse and blazer or whatnot)? That’s fine as well.

I dont want to have to deal with problems arising out of clothing she thought I’d like to watch. I want to interact with a person who is just as comfortable in their clothes as I am in mine. Whatever those are.